I'm 16 and completely out to everyone.I'm in a relationship with a guy who is still completely in the closet,I'm the only person that knows he's gay.
We've been together for almost 6 months.
He has no intentions of coming out anytime soon.The main reason that he's not out is because practically all his friends dislike gay people, we know this because many of them give me a hard time at school. He doesn't want to loose his friends and I understand that but he won't even say hi to me in school so that his friends won't know that we're 'friends'. He doesn't want them to know that he knows me to the point that we're not even friends on Facebook! At first I could deal with that but after 6 months he still doesn't even say hi to me!We never go anywhere that people could see us, so basically we never go outside, we only go to each others houses when nobody else is home so really we don't see much of each other. I can't tell anyone about the relationship which sucks but more than that my friends aren't stupid and they realized fairly fast that I was in a relationship and it really offends them that I won't tell them who he is.They all think that I don't trust them. It's particularly affecting my relationship with my other gay friends who don't understand why I can't tell them, considering they'd understand and wouldn't tell anyone else about him!I can't talk to my friends about him or ask their advice on anything concerning him, hence why I'm here lol
I love my boyfriend so much but it's really putting a strain on our relationship. Everything seems fine to him but I can't keep being in a relationship that's a complete secret, it's messing up every other aspect of my life.I've talked to him about it a few times and each time he just gets upset and I feel horrible for bringing it up!
I know how hard it is to come out and I don't want him to do it just to make my life better.
If things keep on like this I'm going to have to break up with him that's not what I want to do but I can't keep on like this.I want to show him off to the world and he doesn't want the world to know that I exist.
I'd just like another opinion on the situation what am I meant to do?
Breaking up with him is the only option I can see but maybe somebody else can see another option?
-Seth
Source: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/support-advice/48985-relationship-issues.html
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